A WAM of a Weekend 💥 DAY 1

Write Around the Murray (WAM) started on Saturday the 16th of September for me. I jumped in my car for a road trip, grabbed a coffee from my local and switched on an episode of the Life Uncut Podcast. Travelling to Albury was so lovely and having the time to duck into GreenStreat was a highlight! If you haven’t been there, it’s one of the best salad bars and the choices are endless!

In the lead-up to WAM, I’d been reading Kate Mildenhall’s latest novel called The Hummingbird Effect. This book was incredibly hard to put down, to the point that I had to take my delicious salad and perch myself in the city’s park to read for a bit before heading in to listen to Debra Dank and Kathryn Heyman.

Debra and Kathryn discussed their works on nonfiction and how the heavy experiences they’d had in their lives, lead them being where they are now.

Following this discussion, I went for a wander around Albury’s LibraryMuseum, which is where the WAM Festival is annually held. The space was incredibly inviting and it was clear that all of those within the space were there to have a great time and connect over books.

Albury’s LibraryMuseum held the space of a festival bookshop (of which I attended 😉), a preloved bookshop, selling good quality library books, a fantastic coffee van, workshops spaces for little ones and an awesome podcasting section. This is where you could verbally share your feedback and engage with the creative team of WAM. Such a fantastic idea!

That afternoon, we also heard from Paul Delegano discussing his book Prudish Nation. In this interview we heard about Paul’s experience of reaching out to a large and diverse demographic of authors to interview them on their thoughts around unconventional relationships. Openly, Paul discussed his journey of holding preconceived thoughts around marriage, unity and social norms. And then, how he fell a non-monogamous marriage himself. This discussion was so interesting and clever. I must admit, it wasn’t expecting to walk away with so many thoughts, feelings and preconceived ideas of my own washing away.

After Paul’s interview, we all parted ways to book into motels, grab a drink and refresh before coming back for Stereo Stories.

I must kindly thank WAM for generously gifting me a ticket to Stereo Stories for the evening, with Ann-Marie (WAM’s Director) excitedly telling it is an event NOT to miss – how could I say no!

Upon entering Albury’s LibraryMuseum for Stereo Stories, I bumped into the lovely roaming Poet of WAM, Joel McKerrow, who read me a poem from one of his books and my gosh, did it resonate with me! It was about change, outgrowing environments & experiences, and looking to keep growing as an individual. Joel’s talent for words and expression is extraordinary. He also performed inside as we all gathered for a social drink, nibble and network before heading into what was set to be a sold out show!

Stereo Stories was up there as a highlight of my WAM experience 🎹🥁🎷🎸🎻 🎤 Stereo Stories is where a talented band comes together to combine their love and performance of music, with personal stories and a memory that connects with the particular song played. So for example, Paul Delegano took to the stage to discuss a memory and experience he had with his young child and a Nina Simone song that was playing at the time of that experience taking place. The band then brings the two creative streams together – storytelling and music. Here is a link to Stereo Stories youtube channel for you to discover them for yourself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oe6YSHP5piA

On this evening, I made new bookish friends, connected with many talented people and networked with WAM’s awesome team. It was a joy ⭐️

Thursday Real Talk: The Key is Delegation

It can be hard in these busy, bustling lives of ours to not feel as if we have too much on our plates. For me personally, I choose to juggle (key word here is choose – we’re usually in control of how much we take on), full time work, recreational sport, book blogging and reviewing, interviewing authors, developing a book festival and making time for friends & family.

I’m not here to boast or brag – I don’t want your empathy as I’ve said, it’s a choice I make – but I’m explaining this to give context in how try to use delegation in my life.

At this stage of my life, I choose to delegate; developing the book festival and friend & family time.

I delegate festival time by having found the most wonderful people who share it’s passion. These people have formed our strong and involved committee, whom each have a plate the size of mine, if not larger. But the key is we choose to delegate areas in which each members skills are going to excel. For example, I love communicating with others. So my areas of excelling include email correspondence, finding local community members to support us, attending networking events and organising our meetings + some more on the creative side of things. Therefore, anything that tends to fall outside of this scope, we discuss who will best suit the task. This is because somebody else in the room will find a task related to their skillset a heck of a lot easier than I, and will have the capacity to have this said task knocked over in 2 hours, compared to my 6. That my friends, is delegation at work.

With my friend & family time, I also choose to delegate. I generally choose to dedicate my Sundays spending quality time with those I value and who bring value to my life in return. You will see online that I tend to do my baking of cakes, biscuits, roasts and entertaining meals on a Sunday. This is because I delegate my other ‘need-to-do’ tasks throughout the week, leaving my Sunday for visitors. I think this comes from growing up and always dedicating time as a family to a Sunday night dinner together. As Italians, it was always pasta on a Sunday – and funnily enough, I still do that now at times. I personally choose a Sunday because it is typically known as our day of rest, but mentally for me, it’s also a ‘fill-my-cup’ day before heading back into the Monday to Friday grind.

I instantly resonated with this post saying the simple 4 words of “Don’t carry it all”, because I’ve had times in my life where delegation wasn’t my strong suit. And don’t get me wrong, as someone who has strong perfectionist traits, this can be extremely hard to work on and I do slip up – it’s only natural and normal. But choosing to have a healthy system of delegation in your life is something I would encourage you to try. And lastly, find those people who are in your corner and WILL cheer you on and work around your choices – they are your people!

Icebreaker by Hannah Grace

Okay talk about 24 hour read! Icebreaker by Hannah Grace had me up till 3AM!!

I could not put down this GODDAMN book down, with it’s big puppy dog like golden retriever hockey team players, the ongoing manipulative drama between iceskating partners, and the SPICE 🌶 … the spice 🌶

Let’s just say this story has over 5 open door scenes for all you snoopy readers out there.

The storyline had body and I appreciated that. Anastasia attends Maple Hills College and is training with her partner to become iceskating olympians. Together, in their doubles duo they train hard everyday, restrict their diet, limit socialising outside of their iceskating groups and absolutely DO NOT associate with the other ice rink users, such as the ice hockey team.

Disaster strikes when the hockey teams separate ice rink is damaged due to a prank gone wrong, and our favourite tropes get introduced people! Friends to lovers & forced proximity 👏🏼🙈 Que ongoing arguments, training running over time, longing stares and secret watching/admiring of each other 😉 AND the unstoppable merging of two complete rivals in sports.

Nathan is built up from the beginning as this gentle giant. He is the captain of the hockey team and also a strong father type figure to the younger boys in the group. Nathan comes from a wealthy background but doesn’t flaunt it (too much) and our favourite part – he is genuinely love struck by Anastasia.

A big chuck of the beginning is the two of them in their own lanes, trying their best to not acknowledge the other. But, it’s not long before we’re well and truely into the depths of this ‘I want you but it’s not good to want you’ back and forward.

I genuinely liked having so much of the book about them figuring out their relationship status. I think it helped to draw out each of their personalities and fears of committing to a relationships in college (or university). Things change at the end of every year, people move away and careers begin to take a forward step.

However, this is a romance people so let’s remember that they’re always going to end up back in each others arms! 🙈

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💫 Mini Review 💫

This book had me in with both hands and both eyes – unblinking 😉 I COULD NOT put this DOWN 👏🏼

Now, I know this has had varying reviews, most saying that too much happens towards the end and it all a bit extravagant. And yes, I agree that there is a lot that happens and it is a bit extravagant but for me, that was the BEST PART!

This is my first gothic thriller/mystery novel I’ve read and it will not be my last. And definitely not my last read from Riley Sager.

In The Only One Left we follow Kit, who takes on the new role as caregiver/home nurse to Lenora Hope, the unconvicted murderer of her father, mother and older sister when she was a teenager. Lenora has suffered a stroke in later years, and now an old woman now has limited movement in her body, and is harmless. Or so Kit is told.

Mysteriously, Lenora’s previous caregiver left unannounced. She has introduced a typewriter as something to assist in communicating with a non-verbal Lenora. Lenora and Kit slowly develop a friendship/relationship through writing back and forward about Lenora’s life and her past. Slowly, Lenora begins to share her story and Kit begins unravelling the pieces of what really happened that night.

Who was really there and who saw what? Did Lenora really do it and if she did, what made her commit such a hideous crime?

This dark, moody and addictive chapter cliffhangers, I had this finished in 3 days! If you’re looking for a novel with a stream of suspects, unforgettable twists and turns, and the need to be up way past midnight reading – try this!

Slow down, you’re doing fine

I don’t know about you, but I have the ability to let my brain run at a million miles an hour and sometimes, this isn’t healthy.

I tend to have the skill of thinking about every decision I could, would, should and should have made in a span of 10 minutes OR I elaborate on the ‘what if’s’. Now sure, don’t get me wrong, reflection is a very very insightful and helpful tool for appropriate situations but when it overtakes your ability to think clearly – not so helpful.

To slow down my brain and emotions, I’ve taken to using a new skill introduced to me recently.

Spend a moment letting those thoughts in. Acknowledge them. Mentally tell yourself “okay, you have 2 minutes to catastrophise, hypotheticalise, reimagine what has and will be” – and then, after that 2 minutes is up, push them out of your brain. You run them out fo town, bat them for 6 and all that!

By giving the thoughts time to do their thing and then sending them away, you’re in control. You have the ability to let them in when you want too, when you’re ready and if it’s the right time. If it’s not the right time – see you later overthinking, I don’t have time for you today 👋🏼

So sometimes it’s good to remember, slow down you’re doing fine.

If you have helpful meditation and brain slowing tips, techniques and skills under your belt – drop them in the comments below. Let’s help another book friend out today 😊💫

🖼 @theeverythingadvocate

Author Talks with Kate Mildenhall

Bestselling Australian Author, Kate Mildenhall 📸 by Emma Carr

Kate Mildenhall is the author of Skylarking (2016) and The Mother Fault (2020) and most recently, The Hummingbird Effect (my favourite book of 2023!). She also co-hosts The First Time Podcast – conversations with writers.
Kate lives on Wurundjeri lands in Hurstbridge with her partner and two children. She is currently undertaking a PhD in creative process at RMIT University. She is currently working on her fourth novel.

Kate, welcome to Mel Reviews Her Books 💫💖👏🏼

The Hummingbird Effect has been at the top of my favourite 2023 novels since I finished it! Kate, where did the idea of The Hummingbird Effect start for you? Where were you and what were you feeling?

Thanks Mel! I can promise you that authors never get enough of readers enjoying their books! The seed for The Hummingbird Effect came from a story my uncle told at a family party, about a local abattoir that burned down years after it was decommissioned. He described how the many years of fat and sawdust in the floorboards meant that the fire was fierce and quick. That image immediately captured me – there is nothing quite like the electric feeling of a new story sparking in the brain – and led me to researching the Angliss meatworks in Footscray and the lives of the workers there, particularly the women.


What I found in the archives were references to a slaughtermen’s strike in 1933 against the new chain system of slaughtering – designed to make the process cheaper and more efficient as it required unskilled labour. It’s the same system used in abattoirs everywhere today. I started to think about the nature of progress, these moments of change throughout history on which the future pivots. The strike was unsuccessful and the chain system came in, but what if it hadn’t? What might that mean? These questions – through four years and lots of trial and error – led me to the creation of new narratives across the present and future which also explore the lives of women and their work and the nature of progress and innovation.

The 4 (and some would argue 5) interwoven storylines are all raw, addictive to read and confronting. How did you determine which character would take up more of the novel than another?

Before the novel looked like it does now, it only followed the 1933 story of Peggy and Lil. After some early (not great!) feedback from my publisher, and in the midst of Covid lockdowns I began reimagining the story to expand further into the future and thus tell the stories of multiple women all dealing with the same kinds of issues of change and labour – albeit in very different contexts (the four years and lots of trial and error part!).


The stories of Hilda in 2020, La and Cat in 2031 and Maz and Onyx in 2181 (and the river and the AI chatbot!) all poured out of me quickly but they were a mess. The fun (and tricky) part was reassembling them in a way that worked for the reader and helped to thread the connections I was hoping to make about the idea of unintended consequences. I’d read and loved novels like Michael Christie’s Greenwood, Jennifer Egan’s The Candy House and Anthony Doerr’s Cloud Cuckoo Land, and as an exercise, I parsed these books to find out exactly how and when the authors transitioned between narratives and how they kept the reader hooked to the page. This exercise inspired me to take risks with the way I broke up and connected the stories of each of my characters.


I love all of the women in The Hummingbird Effect and feel deeply connected to their characters – I wanted more story for all of them, but a book can hold only so much!

Can you explain to us a little bit about the jaw dropping diagram/algorithm that is inside The Hummingbird Effect? How was this created and what was the process of creation like?

I wanted to create an algorithm that could uninvent a human innovation in an attempt to save the world, but I knew I didn’t have the smarts to do it myself! Through the glorious network of writers I found visual designer Eva Harbridge – both a talented designer and deeply interested in ethical AI – and we collaborated to create the image that can be seen in the novel.
This was such an exciting, inspiring and deeply satisfying experience. Over three weeks we met online and discussed my research and ideas and sent hundreds of emails back and forth as our ideas took shape, and then Eva created a number of different versions of the diagram focussed on different components and styles, you can read a bit more about the process and see some of the images here.


I now want to work with Eva on every project I do. The collaboration was a vital part of my creative process and allowed me to see and connect parts of the novel I hadn’t done previously. Plus I get to see her beautiful design in the finished novel!

Kate, your storytelling is like nothing I’ve ever read before in the best way possible. I now want to consume ALL of your writing! Do you feel like writing and storytelling was always going to be your career path or was it unexpected?

I think the path for many writers is always a little meandering. I wanted to be a writer as a kid, and then life took me in other directions for a time. When my kids were born the urge to write returned in a visceral way, and I applied for and began the Professional Writing and Editing course at RMIT. This was the best decision I ever made, leading directly to me beginning, and subsequently getting published, my first novel Skylarking.


Luck plays a huge role in getting published, along with perseverance and some degree of talent! It’s something many of our guests talk about on The First Time podcast when they tell their own path to publication stories. I’m so grateful that I followed the instinct to get back to the page, and then for the many serendipitous moments that have allowed me to
keep writing books since then.

Kate, thank you SO MUCH for spending the time to share a little part of your experiences and writing with me on Author Talks. I’m so grateful to have had the opportunity to meet at WAM and create a connection 💫😊

Book Review: ‘Fourth Wing’ by Rebecca Yarros

Where do I even start with this book? I mean – readers have been SO divisive that I’m a little scared to even share my thoughts but … here we go … I LOVED THIS BOOK! Holy s**t!! I loved this book!

I cannot thank my dearest reading friend Anna enough for this recommendation! She knows me well and she continually spoke so highly of this fantasy romance. I 100% see why ⭐️

Now I’m going to break this down a little differently to other reviews I’ve done. I want to take you through some pivotal aspects of this book but I’m only going to give you breadcrumbs. I really enjoyed not knowing a lot about Fourth Wing and it just being handed to me with a statement, “Read it. Just read it.” I want you to have that experience too, so here we go ⏬

Dragons: Yes, Dragons you say. Would I ever have thought I’d be recommending a book about dragons, dragon riding, dragons bonding with riders, dragon telepathy and dragon fighting? Heck no! But was this an epic aspect of Fourth Wing? Heck yes! I absolutely adored the relationship that Violet had with her dragon 😉 (if you know you know) and I could immediately feel how essential this relationship and bond was going to be throughout the book – and throughout the soon to be series.

Xaden Riorson: You, my friend, are one spicy main love interest 🌶 Xaden is a character that I think was perfectly placed to challenge Violet’s beliefs of herself, the world around her and the past that she’d so willingly accepted. He also encouraged her to have this wonderful self-belief that I think a partner should be able to do and hold space for. His title, knowledge of the dragon riders that have come before him and what it takes to be a good leader, is everything and more that I think makes him the perfectly imperfect spark in her story. He is witty, protective and a good liar. But does he keep these secrets from Violet to protect her? … read to find out

Basgiath War College: This place is brutal! There are characters dying left, right and centre – and you don’t even see it coming! I mean, one moment they’re there, the next they’ve been burnt to a crisp by whichever dragon sees them as weak. I mean, ruthless. I enjoyed reading how Violet’s intelligence from originally training to become a Scribe, assisted in keeping her alive at the most deadly of times. Her building up of mental, physical and emotional strength was something that progressed really well I thought. There was also a core group of other riders who became her close friends, helping with training, relationship advice and on missions. Rhiannon was a great best friend figure, as was Liam – oh Liam 🥺

Violet (or Violence as Xaden calls her): I am left with so many unanswered questions and feeling when it comes too Violet. Why is her hair silver? Why does she have physical weakness when her sister and mother do not? What happened to her Father? How were her Mother and Father even compatible when they seem so incredibly different? What does her sister know? Did she know about everything (what happens at the end)? Why is Violet the ‘chosen one’ ? What will truely happen between Violet and Xaden when they and their dragons are apart? … so many questions.

Book 2 called Iron Flame comes out on the 8th of November and you can bet your bottom dollar, I will be at a bookstore grabbing a copy in my hot little hands that afternoon!!

I’m taking part in NaNoWriMo!

You’ve heard it here first folks – I’m taking part in NaNoWriMo this November and setting my own personal goal to work on a novel idea I’ve slowly tweaked over the past 18 months ✍🏼

National Novel Writing Month or NaNoWriMo is a creative challenge for individuals, duos and groups to set themselves a challenge of writing and working on a novel every single day for the month of November.

I currently have just over 12,000 words and I’m aiming for a fiction average of 85,000 words.

I’m not one to share much around my creative ventures but what I will share with you is:

  • It’s set in a small town bookstore 😉
  • It’s a romantic fiction 💖
  • I will be attempting to write 500 words per day during NaNoWriMo (not the traditional amount but what I believe to be manageable for me. If I write over this daily word count, it’s a bonus 💫)
  • I will be Instagram Live-ing my writing time 📸 I want this to be motivating for all you other creatives out there setting yourself a challenge and hoping to achieve it

I’m excited, nervous and motivated to bring you all along with me on what I expect to be a wild, exhausting, thrilling and rewarding time.

Are you participating in NaNoWriMo for November? Share below and I’d love to follow along your journey as well 😊

Book Review: ‘Tom Lake’ by Ann Patchett

You could say this is just a story about a woman and a movie star. And it is, but it is also so much more.

Ann’s writing style is something I feel I cannot compare to any other author. Tom Lake reads so easily, as if it were a breeze to write. Yet on the flip side, part of you can just tell each sentence has been deeply mulled over and crafted with care. I felt as though Ann knew what the reader would want at the perfect time.

Gracefully, we flick through past and present. In the past, we are watching Lara grow up. We see her first unexpected audition in Our Town, to her first interactions with the movie star and love interest, Duke. Lara’s career progression is quick, exciting and forgein. Her success in theatre was not where she expected her life to go yet her experiences brought her to where she is now, and that’s on a her family run cherry farm, with her husband Joe and retelling her life story to her three early 20’s daughters during Covid-19.

Lara retelling her story to her three daughters is fascinating and a topic our book club really chose to flesh out. We all agreed that after reading this book, there must be so many parts of our parents lives that we just don’t know. For me, I think these thoughts swirled as we heard Lara relay areas of her life in a certain way to paint a certain picture or image of herself and others around her at the time. Lara also chooses to not tell certain parts of her life to her daughters because they are too harrowing, raw and would change their perception of her. I think this could be true for so many parents. As listeners and readers, we take certain parts of a story and flesh out the bits in between with our own imagination. I think Ann painted a really great narrative around this action and how it can impact familial relationships and memories we thought we knew so well.

Tom Lake has been my first Anne Patchett novel and I can safely say, it won’t be my last. And I must admit, I know have a temptation to pick up more Reece Witherspoon Book Club books as this is the 2nd I’ve thoroughly enjoyed.

Happy reading book friends ⭐️

Sundays in bed with … ‘The Wake-Up Call’

There is something about Izzy and Lucas that had me needing to stay in my pyjama’s until 3.30pm and finish this book! Yes, you’re hearing that right 🙈

‘The Wake-Up Call’ is our October book pick for THE ROMANTICS book club, of which I’ve started with a book friend this year. It covers all things love, spicy and fun. If you’d like to join our online book club, click here 💖

Izzy Jenkins is a bright, bubbly English gal who passionately despises Lucas, a sexy, strong headed and co-working Brazilian at New Forest Boutique Hotel. Both share the job of receptionist slash hotel managers. Yet sharing the role is proving quite difficult, as the two of them are competitive, quick witted and always have the upper hand on one another.

But see the thing is, Izzy has (and actively does) suppress the fact that she has feelings for Lucas … strong feelings, even when he is a stubborn pain in her behind! So much so that in December 2020, she sends him a Christmas card, openly expressing her feelings and suggesting he meet her under the mistletoe. Oh man, did this go horribly wrong! Que laughing at card, Lucas kissing Izzy’s roommate instead and a totally disastrous next year of Izzy and Lucas trying to work side by side.

I really enjoyed the rollercoaster that is Izzy and Lucas’ enemies to lovers romance. Their back and forth banter, constant teasing of one another in the hotel lobby and in front of Poor Mandy. Gosh, I loved Poor Mandy and laughed every time I read her name and scenes. She’s not in fact poor, but is rather referred to as poor due to having to put up with Izzy and Lucas bickering, competing and disturbing each other every week she works with them.

I will admit, there was a part there where it started to lull for me, but then we got into the heated arguments becoming heated emotional and intimate scenes .. and snap! my attention was well and truely captured again!

Beth O’Leary is an instant buy for me because I always close one of her books feeling lighter, happier and like there is the possibility of romance still in the world 💫 I really recommend all her novels, particularly this one!