Author Talks with Abra Pressler

Australian Author, Abra Pressler šŸ“ø Ravi from LiberaArts

Abra Pressler is a Riverina gal, who now lives in Canberra and writes her romantic heart out ā¤ļø

Abra studied Creative Writing at RMIT University in Melbourne, where she lived for three years. But when the pandemic hit, in May 2020, she decided to self-publish an old manuscript, titled More. By December, she’d sold 3,000 copies.

After winning the 2021 Penguin Random House WriteIt Fellowship for Love Other Scores, Abra signed with Pan Macmillan to have the full novel published in 2023! And can I just say, I’m so pleased about this ā­ļøšŸŽ¾

Abra, welcome to Mel Reviews Her Books šŸ’–

Abra, can you please share with us your writing life before Love and Other Scores came into the physical book world? … Because this isn’t your first rodeo.

Like most writers, I devoured books when I was younger and then tried writing my own (very, very bad) books. But writing quickly became my passion. I decided to study writing at university with the dream of being a published author.

After I finished my degree, I got a job in the private sector and kept writing on the side. I wrote several manuscripts in a variety of genres but kept coming back to contemporary romance. Around 2018-2019, I wrote a manuscript calledĀ MoreĀ about an Uber-like delivery driver who dreams of being a chef and a taciturn foreign diplomat who can’t cook (thus orders aĀ lotĀ of takeaway). I pitched it to a few agents and publishers but didn’t get much of a bite. Then COVID-19 hit and I had nothing do to, so I thought I’d just polish it up, edit it, and self-publish. It was also pretty strategic because I knew I wanted to get a traditional publishing contract, and thought ā€˜Well, if I can show I can write a sellable book, that’ll help!’

I learnt so much about self-publishing (aka I made a lot of mistakes), andĀ MoreĀ did moderately well (it sold around 6,000 or so copies), so I started writing my next idea, which wasĀ Love and Other ScoresĀ with the intention that I really wanted to get a traditional deal, but if I didn’t, I could always self-publish it. I ended up signing with Pan Macmillan around 8 or 9 months after I started pitching it to agents and publishers.Ā 

That goes to say that the first book you ever write may not be the one that will land you a traditional deal (if that’s your goal!). Sometimes it can take 3, 5, or 10 manuscripts and that’s okay. Every draft and book I’ve written has allowed me to grow as a writer and I’m of the firm belief no book idea is ever ā€˜dead’ even when it’s shelved. It’s just not in its right form yet!

The Australian Open is CLEARLY a huge inspiration for Noah and Gabriel’s love story. What personal experiences brought this idea to life for you?

I’ve been obsessed with tennis from a young age—my friend Bec and I would stay up late watching the Australian Open back when Nadal, Federer and Djokovic were the big three, fighting it out each year for the major titles.

But my actual ā€˜research’ comes from when I worked at the Australian Open as a barista. Around 2014 or 2015 (I forget which!), I was there making coffee and milkshakes and I had a ground pass for my job, but I could use it whenever I wanted. I’d go hang out and watch matches or see players’ practice. It was great fun!Ā 

I studied in Melbourne, lived in Footscray and commuted to my job onĀ Chapel Street. Yes. Chapel Street. (For those unfamiliar, an hour and fifteen minutes on public transport; two hours on Sundays). So a lot of Noah’s experience is based on my life working in South Yarra, being a rat bag and public nuisance, staying out too late, payingĀ wayĀ too much to get into Revs—basically, being a young adult with no real sense of direction.Ā 

Who came to you first- Noah or Gabriel, and what did you see/feel?

Noah came first, because as I mentioned, aĀ lot of his experiences are based on my life, but his personality was developed over several drafts and his voice shone when I switched from third-person to first-person early in the drafting process. Still, I remember from the first draft I wanted him to have this floppy Leonardo Di Capro-esque blow-cut 90s hairstyle—something that (at the time!) was so out of fashion, but I just felt if anyone could rock that look, Noah could.

Gabriel is a more nuanced character who required much more research to bring to life, both because a) he’s a professional tennis player and b) he’s culturally completely outside of my own experience. But, in the same vein as Noah, I also knew he had to have incredible hair—there’s something about a tennis player with amazing hair that just gets the people going!

I instantly fell head over heels for both Noah and Gabriel. I just didn’t want that excited buzzing feeling in the bottom of my stomach to end!Ā Are there more exciting buzzy books coming our way soon?Ā Ā 

Thank you—I am always so thrilled to hear when people love my characters. On the topic of more books, I certainly hope so!

Last year, I was lucky enough to win the Voices from the Intersection + Allen & Unwin Fellowship for a sapphic young adult sports romance. It’s a fun, sporty romance that explores those really hard ages between 18 and 20 when everything is changing (school, family, living situation, friendship groups), but it’s also about footy and female empowerment and standing up for what you believe in!

Argh, I’ve probably said too much but I’m in the middle of another draft and it’s all coming together, so I hope there’s a chance I can share it with you soon. And then, who knows! I would never say no to returning to the world of tennis…

Abra – thank you so much for sharing your time, experiences and book journey with us here & on Instagram Live šŸŽ„ Admittedly, reading through your answers I was laughing and smiling – I think that just shows how much your writing in Love and Other Scores was a hit for me šŸ‘šŸ¼

Reading Journals & why they’re a bookish hobby you should try šŸŽØ

I’ve recently discovered the joy and creative expression of a Reading Journal and I have to say … I think I’m a changed reader. I’m already onto my 5th book for 2024! Who even am I?!

A reading journal is either a blank, lined or dot grid journal that you use to log a variety of bookish things. For example, you could log:

– your reading goals for the year

– track the genre of books you read each month

– log your favourite anticipated releases

– collected stats on your star ratings

Basically, reading journals are a great way to motivate you into reading more, reflect back on your month & year of reading and patting yourself on the back as you move through the months by ticking different pages or reading challenges off.

Now, I’m all new to this and it’s something that I felt motivated to do as I wanted a creative ā€˜down-time’ hobby that I could also turn into a workshop next year.

I promise you, I’m no artist and I guarantee you don’t have to be either.

I’ve started with some very basic felt tip pens from Ekersley’s, a dot journal and alphabet stencil from Big W.

I think the main take away from reading journals is that you feel fulfilled by your own creative abilities and take the time to look back on small (or big) successes throughout the year.

I will be using my reading journal to also write personal journal entries. I’ll dedicate pages to write about experiences I’ve had throughout the year or if a book I’ve read reminds me of a memory or experience I’ve had. I think the double whammy of reading reflection and personal reflection will be a nice token for future Mel šŸ’

+ a beautiful friend of mine encouraged me to be dynamic with my reading journal and really make it my own!

Here are a few YouTube videos that helped kick off my reading journal journey (say that 3 times fast šŸ˜‰)

Rachel Catherine is an Aussie BookTuber that a dear friend of mine introduced me too šŸ’–
Destiny is a BookTuber that Rachel Catherine refers too often

4 Books to Begin my 2024

It’s been a hot minute since I’ve written a good ol’ fashioned bookish blog post! So here you are my friends – I’m going to fill you in on the 4 books I’ve already whipped through in 2024 šŸ“–

The True Love Experiment by Christina Lauren was the first book I completed in 2024. I zipped through this in about 3 days because it’s addictive plot line and characters were just divine. The True Love Experiment is about a US best selling romance author going on a reality dating tv show, much like ‘The Bachelorette’ or ‘Love at First Sight’ here in Australia. However, the set up for this reality show is that each guy introduced to our eligible bachelorette needs to be inspired by a romance novel trope, such as ‘the bad boy’, ‘the one that got away’, ‘the nerd’ etc. And of course, our beautiful, kind hearted producer (šŸ˜‰) can see this is a fabulous idea and will help make the tv network the money it needs for him to go back to producing animal documentaries. That is, until he also becomes incredibly invested in the show … and our main character. This book was laugh out loud funny, had great angst and hot moments, but also sweet and down to earth moments. I find Christina Lauren’s books a great palate cleanser ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø (3/5 stars)

Darling Girls by Sally Hepworth was my next completed novel. Admittedly, I started this in December of 2023 but just didn’t get around to finishing it until the hustle and bustle of Christmas and New Year was over. This story follows 3 women as they’re thrown into an investigation of the foster home they all lived in as children. A child’s body has been found under the house in present day and all 3 woman are suspects as the police try to put the timeline together. The flashbacks of each woman’s perspective shed light on what actually took place in the house/at this time/who this child could be. Due to the manipulative, abusive and influential experiences all 3 girls had at that house, they consider themselves sisters and are determined to see the woman behind their abusive childhood found guilty. I enjoyed this book. I would say that I saw some of the ending coming but there were other parts that I didn’t! Overall, enjoyable and I would like to try more of Sally Hepworth’s books this year. ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø (3/5 stars)

Weyward by Emilia Hart was picked up at the perfect time for me! I wanted the feel of magic/fantasy but didn’t want drudge through the whole world-building chapters, not understanding peoples roles and having no clue what peoples names are – you know? 🤣 So Weyward was more magical realism and I found it the perfect slice for my craving. Following 3 quite extended generations of Weyward women, all 3 are guided by their connection to nature, ability to intuitively speak with animals, and also grow their gifts. A strong plot line that I was not expecting in this book is domestic violence and intergenerational trauma. Each woman has either been exposed to and/or experienced domestic abuse, with the male figure being the perpetrator, first hand. This abuse is actually the start of their spark in magic as it is used as both a coping mechanism and also a form of protection or revenge. One woman is in the 1600’s and she is on trial for witchcraft. Another woman is in the 1950’s and she has lost her mother, has a poor relationship with her father and her cousin unexpectedly comes to stay following his time serving in the War. Another woman is in present day, and she is on the run from her husband after just finding out she’s pregnant. This novel certainly hits some cautionary points and has quite descriptive scenes at times. I didn’t find this a bad thing, if anything it made me more passionate about seeing these women through to then end. ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøšŸ’« (3.5/stars)

Love, Just in by Natalie Murray has been my fourth completed book and I just NEEDED to pick this up because, girl – is she getting some hype (totally worth it I might add)! Love, Just In is a friends to lovers but there is also some high school chasing and then present day heartache. Josie and Zac have been best friends since the moment they bonded over music in high school, but as the years went by, poor timing, dating other people and after Zac experiences a tragic accident, resulting in the loss of someone significant in his life, they’ve drifted. Zac fled Sydney 2 years ago following the tragic accident and since then, him and Josie have barely been in touch. Josie has been offered an opportunity to help progress her news reading/tv presenter career, and it just happens to be in the city Zac fled to – Newcastle. Instantly, their friendship is starting to mend but Josie is seeing Zac in a different light; an attractive light; a more than friends light; a HOT light. Zac & Josie’s story had perfectly timed reveals, angst, funny moments and tender heart moments. The perfect Sunday morning/afternoon read! ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø (4/5 stars)

How are you guys starting your 2024? New books? New hobbies underway? šŸ™ˆšŸ“– Comment below šŸ’­

Thursday Real Talk: A Gentle Week

The last two weeks, I came across some challenges I was not expecting to face and then some other regular ones. Let’s just say the past fortnight has been hard on my brain, body and ability to get up and enjoy something in each day.

But that’s okay, we’re over the hill now because on the one day that I had 3 relatively unhappy things happen, 1 good thing happened and I just needed to focus on that. Because it was majorly good and I have the internal belief that everything happens for a reason.

So that lands us at this week. This week has been a gentle week.

This week I’ve only said ‘Yes’ to the things that bring me joy.

I’ve cooked a homemade meal every night for dinner. I’ve had meetings with local creatives for the Riverina Readers Festival. I filmed a piece for local tv about our Book Festival and a book event we have coming up. I took myself to get a much deserved massage. I’ve made appointments to help improve my future self. And this weekend, I’m spending time with friends in a happy and celebratory environment.

This may still come across as a lot, but this is considered a slow week for me at the moment šŸ™ˆ And for that, I’m very grateful šŸ’«

Tell me – what’s an activity you like to do on a slow week?

Xx Mel

šŸŽØ @holliestartup

Author Talks with Steph Vizard

šŸ“ø 2022 HarperCollins Banjo Prize Winner, Steph Vizard

Steph Vizard has burst onto the Australian romance writing scene with her debut & award winning novel, The Love Contact.

Steph has a wealth of experience in the Australian and international book industry. From studying Literature at Oxford University, to working in publishing in London, to now writing her own Australian story which has won the 2022 HarperCollins Banjo Prize. I think Steph is in for an absolute cracker of a writing career ā­ļø

Welcome Steph, to Mel Reviews Her Books šŸ’–

Steph, congratulations! A published novel AND the winner of HarperCollins Banjo Prize for Fiction! Can you share with us a little bit about your journey in applying for this book prize and what life as an author has been like since?

Thanks so much! I wrote The Love Contract during my maternity leave and then submitted it to the prize when I went back to work. The process for the Banjo Prize is that you submit the whole novel so I tried to have my manuscript in the best shape I could when I sent it off. A few months later, out of the blue, I got a call from HarperCollins to tell me that I’d won the prize and that the book was to be published. It was a truly magical moment!


Life as an author has been a whirlwind and an incredibly fun ride. There have been some massive highs – seeing the cover for the first time, holding the first real life copy, a book launch surrounded by my friends and family, doing an interview on live TV. That said, I had a 3-month-old baby when the book was published so that’s kept things very real! One of the best parts of being published has been meeting so many other talented Australian writers – it’s the most supportive gang of people!

The Love Contract had me hooked from the beginning! I absolutelyĀ adored Zoe and Hazel(nut). You’ve written the realities of motherhood in such an accurate light and formed it into a gripping plot line. Did you always know motherhood would be the leading theme in The Love Contract?

I’m so glad it had you hooked – I was so keen to write a book where the reader wants to keep turning the pages! I think when I started to write The Love Contract I knew that baby Hazel would be part of the story, as she’s the reason Zoe and Will are forced to spend so much time together. But I think it caught me a bit by surprise how much I had to say about motherhood. I think I was hungry for stories about women trying to do all the things, including career and parenting, that didn’t shy away from the really tough stuff but also showed the incredibly funny and joyous parts of parenting.

Will, what a sweetheart. With his stiff, business-like composure whenever the topic of work is discussed but then his carefree and loving nature with Hazel. He’s swoon worthy! How did the characters of Will, Zoe & Hazel come to you?

I love Will! He has a lot of qualities I find very attractive – he’s smart, acerbic and (secretly) very caring. I like that he’s a straight shooter and isn’t a people pleaser – which is a nice ballast to Zoe. I think he was inspired by people I’ve met who are incredibly brilliant at their jobs and work super hard but have never stopped to think about why they’ve chosen their particular path.

With Zoe, I really wanted to write a romantic comedy heroine who is pretty pulled together and trying to pull off the life she wants to lead – she’s just completely overwhelmed.

Honestly, I think Hazel was just inspired by how cute and funny and ridiculous babies can be!

Steph, what advice would you give to budding writers aiming to land a publishing deal or researching & applying for book prizes such as HarperCollins Banjo Prize for Fiction?

I think my main bit of advice is to go for it! With prizes it’s worth being organised as there are different deadlines and entry requirements to keep in mind. I think (and maybe this is incredibly obvious) it’s important to always submit the best version of your story that you can, and things like craft books, writing courses, writing podcast, early readers and manuscript assessments, can really help on this front. I also think that in our busy lives carving out the time to write is always a challenge, but if you can find a consistent, small parcel of time to write every day, the words will happen!

Steph, thank you so much for sharing your time with us on Author Talks & Instagram Live Saturday 13 January šŸŽ„ā€‚

I wish you all the best and can guarantee that I’ll be pre-ordering your next novel!

Thursday Real Talk: That 4am Brain

How is it that my 4am brain conjures up thoughts that have not taken up space in my thinking for anywhere between 4 – 6 months. It’s like all of a sudden, everything is quiet and the gust of meddling thoughts circulating is so strong that anything will come to the forefront.

Such as;

Why did I respond that way in that conversation?

What if they felt a certain way because of the way you responded in that conversation, that you had 3 months ago, with that person who is practically a stranger AND whom you’ll probably never see again?!

Why didn’t I cook something else for dinner tonight?

I need to call that person back. I hope something isn’t wrong.

I wonder what the weather will be like tomorrow.

The amount of tabs I have open in my brain at 4am is ridiculous. They ebb and flow between pretty harmless thoughts, to worries, to genuine concern that then results in me staying up longer to try and resolve the hypothetic issue my own brain created.

Am I alone in this or is this a common occurrence for those whose body clock decides it’s time to start up your day at 4am?!

Thankfully over time I’ve come to realise the triggers for these 4am wake-ups (stress & wine) and what I need to do to ensure I’m not a total zombie the following day (set my alarm a bit later, give myself a good half an hour+ to drink my morning coffee and wakeup, wash my hair = the ultimate ‘starting fresh’ method).

I’ve come to respect that these 4am wake ups may not be something I can control all the time. So instead, it’s an opportunity to; practice wrangling those open tabs that are sitting there being unhelpful & not loading properly; take a moment to do some deep breathing; tell myself ‘everything will be okay in less than 3 hours’.

Comment below some of your methods during and after your 4am wake up šŸ’¬

My Year in Book (2023 edition)

2023 was an epic year in books for me – in the form of reading, reviewing, talking about books with all you book lovers and also talking with authors about their work!

This year I have:

ā­ļø Conducted over 10 in person, online and panel interviews

ā­ļø Participated in NaNoWriMo & now have 20,000 words on page

ā­ļø Started the Riverina Readers Festival

ā­ļø Attended two book festivals

ā­ļø Met some seriously talented people!

In 2023 I read a total of 26 books! If you’d like to see & follow my individual ratings for each book, you can jump onto my GoodReadsĀ (click here)

  • The šŸ“– BOOK will indicate that there is a book review of this title on Mel Reviews Her Books
  • The šŸŽ¤ MICROPHONE will indicate that there is an Author Talks with this author on Mel Reviews Her Books
  • The šŸŽ„ FILM will indicate that you can watch an Instagram Live Interview with this author on @melreviewsherbooks

Heartstrong by Ellidy Pullin šŸ“–

Words in Deep Blue by Cath Crowley šŸ“–

The Prison Healer by Lynette Noni (2x reread) šŸ“–

The Spice Roads by Maia Ibrihim šŸ“–

Chain of Gold by Cassandra Clare

The Redgum River Retreat by Sandie Docker šŸŽ¤

The Dangers of Female Provocation by ZoĆ« Coyle šŸ“–šŸŽ¤šŸŽ„

Five Bush Weddings by Clare Fletcher šŸ“–šŸŽ¤šŸŽ„

The Last Love Note by Emma Grey šŸ“–šŸŽ¤šŸŽ„

How to be Remembered by Michael Thompson šŸ“–šŸŽ¤šŸŽ„

Ascension by Nicholas Binge šŸ“–

The Cheat Sheet by Sarah Adams šŸ“–

A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J Maas (3x reread) šŸ“–

The Whispering by Veronica Lando šŸ“–

Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros šŸ“–

The Hummingbird Effect by Kate Mildenhall šŸ“–šŸŽ¤šŸŽ„

Practice Makes Perfect by Sarah Adams

A Beginner’s Guide to Scandal by Alivia Fleur

Happy Place by Emily Henry

The Wake-Up Call by Beth O’Leary šŸ“–

The Flatshare by Beth O’Leary (3x reread) šŸ“–

Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros

Icebreaker by Hannah Grace šŸ“–

The Love Contract by Steph Vizard

The Only One Left by Riley Sager šŸ“–

Tom Lake by Ann Patchett šŸ“–

Kill Your Husbands by Jack Heath šŸ“–šŸŽ¤šŸŽ„

Love and Other Scores by Abra Pressler

Here’s to another year full of books, joy and reading šŸ’–

What did Mel Reviews Her Books get up to in 2023?

What a year 2023 was! It feels somewhat surreal to be looking back on a year that held so much for me, not only in terms of book related content and book joy, but also in personal growth, being open to change and starting new projects.

Looking back through my yearly calendar diary is a bit of a nostalgic routine for me each new year. I stop and ponder over what’s been written, what I may have been stressing myself over that week and what little notes, stickers and ‘artefacts’ if you will, I’ve left in there, eg. photos, cinema tickets, receipts.

Here’s what my 2023 involved:

  • I brought in the 2023 New Year surrounded by some of my closest friends. It was a 10+ hr drive to get there and 100% worth the trip šŸ’«
  • Collins Booksellers Wagga was my place of work and my position there was as the Store Manager. I had the privilege of meeting, networking and talking books with so many new book friends, authors and illustrators.
  • I dedicated a lot of time to playing tennis (my favourite sport) and become better and more consistent over time šŸŽ¾
  • One of my best friends organised a wonderful birthday party for me! In which I was spoilt, full of food and joy šŸŽ‚
  • I adopted a little cat and called her ‘Peach’ šŸ‘
  • Hollie Startup who is based in London, designed and created my wonderful new logo for Mel Reviews Her Books šŸ–¼
  • I started and finished a relationship, and grew in leaps and bounds šŸ’–
  • Sulari Gentill and I had a wonderful chat at One Book One Temora šŸŽ¤
  • The Riverina Readers Festival came to fruition šŸ’™
  • I begin studying Library and Information Studies at TAFE and then decided, it wasn’t for me šŸ¤“ Book blogging suits me far better!
  • I worked really hard on my mental health and committed to dedicating time to me. This lead to my personal growth and acknowledging my self worth 🧠
  • Jugiong Writers Festival invited me to be their bookseller at their bi-annual Book Festival! What a wonderful experience this was – one I will truely cherish šŸ™šŸ¼
  • I organised, communicated and brought together the most beautiful authors who were all about LOVE! I organised my last Collins Booksellers Wagga in store event and our first Riverina Readers Festival micro event – all in the same weekend šŸ˜… (I like to push my limits but BY GOSH was it worth it!)
  • I started a new job in the Disability sector and have learnt so much 🤩
  • Social Worker Mel has made a full appearance and I really like her – she’s going to stick around 😊
  • Our local ABC Radio had me on to talk about our Riverina Readers Festival event and it was so much fun šŸ“»
  • The Riverina Readers Festival committee had meeting, after meeting, after meeting. I may be bias in saying, but our team is really the best in the biz šŸ‘ŒšŸ¼ … we’re only at July book friends
  • Wagga Civic Theatre put on a number of amazing shows in which I attended! I love that place! šŸŽŸšŸŽ­
  • The Riverina Readers Festival officially became incorporated with me as President šŸ’™
  • I began planning, organising and starting Instagram Lives on Mel Reviews Her Books šŸŽ¤
  • Weekly blog posts became an ongoing goal šŸ’»
  • I made new friends šŸ’–
  • I hugged my friends tight as they went overseas and explored the world while I stayed in Wagga and explored what I can build in the world of books šŸŒ
  • My Literary Lovers Book Club has an inconsistent attendee in me, but luckily, they still accepted me coming along here and there šŸ˜‰
  • With our Festival Committee, we wrote plans, proposals and grant applications – of which we have had some success ā­ļø
  • I experienced many migraines and the process of handling them is now something I’m exploring šŸ„
  • I attended Write Around the Murray (WAM) Book Festival and had a stunning time šŸ“–
  • NaNoWriMo got me good and Instagram Live really become my intimate friend šŸŽ„ā€‚20,000 words are now sitting in my word doc waiting for a time when the creativity sparks again.
  • My family moved away and I felt incredibly lonely. I’ve learnt to appreciate those around me and what the community of Wagga can bring me šŸ‘„
  • Cooking continued to be my downtime and I explored many new recipes, of which I shared a few with you all on here! šŸ‘©šŸ½ā€šŸ³
  • I renovated a bookcase and absolutely LOVE it šŸ’š
  • THE ROMANTICS Book Club became an online book club created by a friend and myself šŸ“–
  • I set myself the 2024 goal of conducting 12 Author Interviews on Instagram Live & developing a paid newsletter full of juicy content šŸ’»
  • Christmas and New Year was celebrated with my nearest and dearest šŸŽ„šŸŽ† and I’m rounding out 2023 feeling as if I’m bringing the right people into my orbit who are going to continue to support me and want the best for me ā¤ļø

WOW! Now looking back after writing this all down, I cannot fathom how much I’ve actually done in 2023 šŸ™ˆ What a year – here’s to another beautiful bookish year with all you book friends šŸ„‚šŸ“–šŸŽ¤šŸ’«

I hope 2023 has been tremendous for you xx

Thursday Real Talk: Are Opportunities Really That Scary?

I’ve always been one of those people who thought that opportunities were scary because opportunities change things. They can alter your path and most of the time, opportunities bring change that you may not have planned for. I was fearful of this for a very long time until I realised something quite significant.

Opportunities do not have to be BIG! They don’t have to be so large that your whole life upheaves for them.

Opportunities can be; choosing to take that spare 10 minutes to go grab a coffee for yourself instead of making one; rather than spending the evening alone, text a friend and see what they’re up too; or if you’re in a new environment with new people, it’s an opportunity to make a new friend.

Saying yes to these opportunities could help to build your self-care routines, connections with those you love and care for, and find new people to love and care for in your circle. By no means are these opportunities not life changing, they are but they just look a little different to what the typic ‘life changing opportunity may be’. And they are still quite significant!

What I’m coming to learn is that if you don’t say yes to these types of self-building opportunities, they cannot lead you onto finding the confidence and circle of encouragement to say yes to some bigger opportunities, such as; changing your job; showing someone your worth through action; or building something new from scratch.

All of these ‘big’ opportunities still require those initial, un-life heaving opportunities of; self care; consideration; connection; and self-worth.

So maybe we need to change our perspective of opportunities as we move into 2024 this weekend.

If we were to scale it back, the flow on effect of saying ‘yes’ to a daily opportunities, could in fact be more effective and enhance more stability and strength for when that big opportunity shows itself. And at that point, the big opportunity may not look so scary anymore x

Author Interviews of 2023 šŸŽ¤

On my drive back to my family home for Christmas, I had the time to reflect on the year that was 2023 šŸŽ„

2023 has been HUGE in terms of Author interviews and they have taken place in many forms. I have conducted over 10 in person, online, written and panel interviews.

I am so incredibly grateful, feel incredibly privileged and in all honesty, speechless when I look at this collection of talented Australian Authors who have given their time, knowledge and enthusiasm on Mel Reviews Her Books (excuse me while I start getting teary writing this).

Thank you; Sulari Gentill; Zoƫ Coyle; Anita Heiss; Brooke Hill; Karina May; Emma Grey; Clare Fletcher; Michael Thompson; Kate Mildenhall; & Jack Heath.

Additionally, a big thank you to Sandie Docker; for your time spent in Wagga visiting me, sharing your festival knowledge and attending Collins Booksellers after years of connecting online but Covid stepping in our way!

Thank you to the stunning Maya Linnell, for featuring me on her latest novel Kookaburra Cottage! šŸ’« *honestly a dream come true*

Extra thankfulness to Sulari Gentill – your encouragement, support, strength and belief in me pulling together a book festival for our region. I cannot express my gratitude enough x

And lastly, thank you to all of YOU! Thank you for reading, viewing, liking, commenting, sharing and watching the book content I create and work on each and every week šŸ’–

Now, it’s time to celebrate yourself!! ā­ļø COMMENT BELOW something you’re proud of this year šŸ’¬